### Stable mariage

The Gale-Shapley stable matching theorem and the algorithm.

**GALE-SHAPLEY THEOREM** Consider a society of *n* men and *n* women and suppose that every man [and every woman] have a preference (linear) relation on the women [men] he [she] knows. Then there is a stable marriage, namely a perfect matching between the men and the women so that there are no men and women which are not matched so that both of them prefer the other on their spouces.

**Proof**: Consider the following algorithm, on day 1 every man goes to the first woman on his list and every woman select the best man among those who come to her and reject the others. On the second day every rejected men go to the second woman on his list and every woman select one man from all man that comes to her (including the man she selected in the previous day if there was such a man) and rejects all others, and so on. This process will terminate after finitely many days and with a stable marriage! To see that the process terminate note that each day at least one man will come to a new women, or go back home after beeing rejected from every women (*n+1* possibilities) and none of these possibilitie will ever repeat itself so after at most days things will stabilize. When it terminates we have a stable marriage because suppose women *W* and men *M* are not married at the end. If M is married to a women he prefers less then *W* or to no women at all it means that M visited W and she rejected him so she had a better men than M. **Sababa!**

It turns out that the above algorithm where the men are proposing and being rejected is optimal for the men! If a man M is matched to a woman W then there is not a single stable marriage where M can be matched to a woman higher on his list. Similarly this algorithm is worst for the women. But by how much?

### Random independent preferences

**Question 1:** There are n men and n women. If the preferences are random and men are proposing, what is the likely average women’s rank of their husbands, and what is the likely average men’s rank of their wives.

You can test your intuition, or look at the answer and for a follow up question after the fold.